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	<title>South African Seniors</title>
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		<title>Is it Ok to use Geolocation to Check if Your Guy is Cheating?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2012 21:47:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Having the inclination that your significant other is cheating can cause a great deal of stress. You worry over everything, and you start to overanalyze everything he says and everything he does. Some women want to know for sure if their guy is cheating, so they turn to the help of geolocation. Geolocation uses satellites [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having the inclination that your significant other is cheating can cause a great deal of stress. You worry over everything, and you start to overanalyze everything he says and everything he does. Some women want to know for sure if their guy is cheating, so they turn to the help of geolocation.</p>
<p>Geolocation uses satellites to locate people through their computers, tablets or mobile devices. Depending on the type of geolocation application, some will give you a direct address as to where a person is while others will give you a general vicinity. There are plenty of apps that will allow you to track someone’s geolocation, but you can also utilize the geolocation tools through Facebook and Foursquare.</p>
<p>How to use geolocation to check if your guy is cheating.</p>
<p>Geolocation basically allows you to stalk somebody electronically rather than physically. Women tend to use this type of technology because there is less of a risk of getting caught.</p>
<p>In order to use geolocation, you have to have an application that will tell you someone&#8217;s geolocation, or you need to pay close attention to the places they check in to (or even post from) via Facebook or Foursquare. For example, if your guy tells you that he&#8217;s going to work in Chicago, but he posts something to Facebook and his geolocation says he&#8217;s currently in a suburb of Chicago, he is not where he says he was going to be.</p>
<p>Geolocation apps are very similar. You would use an application to try and track someone&#8217;s computer, tablet or mobile phone. You will either get a specific address or a location vicinity of where the person is based on the satellite information received from their device.</p>
<p>Should you implement this technology?</p>
<p>Using technology to check if your guy is cheating is the same as physically following him or checking his phone or emails—it’s still an invasion of privacy. If you are this paranoid that he&#8217;s cheating, there has to be a reason for these thoughts. Before you go all technology-stalker on your man, you need to figure out why you think he&#8217;s cheating in the first place.</p>
<p>If you truly think something is going on, you need to have a conversation with your significant other. While most guys will not come out and admit it, you may realize that there is a hidden reason for your insecurity, or you may find that you are both stressed and haven&#8217;t&#8217; been acting as normal as you thought. Having a conversations may just be what you need to revitalize your relationship.</p>
<p>There are risks involved too. If you use geolocation to track him, and you notice that he&#8217;s not where he said he&#8217;d be, you will probably overreact when there may be a logical explanation. If you attack your significant other with accusations of cheating when he really wasn&#8217;t cheating, it will probably end with him ending it with you, as nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t trust them.</p>
<p>Trust issues are not healthy for a relationship. If you are confident in your relationship, then you should have nothing to worry about. Leave the geolocation stalking alone, and try to rekindle your relationship in a healthy way.</p>
<p>Ashley Cole is a stay at home mother with 3 beautiful daughters who loves to spend her free time writing. She often proofs her work with a <a href="http://www.grammarly.com/">grammar checker</a> to ensure her writing is clear, professional, and mistake-free. When she doesn&#8217;t have time to cook for her family she often resorts to <a href="http://on-cor.com/">frozen meals</a> to keep them satisfied.</p>
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		<title>Keeping the Romance Burning</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2012 07:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are a senior who is looking to date online, chances are good that things are going pretty well for you. You already know how to make a profile and how to reach out and contact others, but now you might be wondering how to keep things going after that first meeting &#8211; how [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are a senior who is looking to date online, chances are good that things are going pretty well for you. You already know how to make a profile and how to reach out and contact others, but now you might be wondering how to keep things going after that first meeting &#8211; how do you keep the romance burning. This is something that plenty of people have trouble with. Things are going well at first, but then as time goes on, the messages and the emails just get fewer and fewer. How can you keep things going even when you might be worried that they are dwindling down?</p>
<p>First, remember to be diligent. An online relationship is just like one that takes place in real life, and it needs time and effort. While the movies tell us that love is all about passion and spontaneity, the truth of the matter is that a relationship, online or off, takes work. Make sure that you are making the time to respond, and that you are doing more than just dashing off a few quick words.</p>
<p>Move things along as it becomes appropriate to do so. If you have been hurt in the past, it may be tempting to take things excruciatingly slow. However, you will find that while taking things slow is a good idea, it is not a good idea to let things come to a complete stop! If you are ready to move beyond email messages, mention it to your correspondent and ask them what they think. Whether you move on to Skype or actual physical visits, the addition of something new will certainly spur your conversations on</p>
<p>Even if you are not ready to meet yet, remember that you should think about how to keep the conversation going. For example, are you someone who wants to know more about the person in question? If so, than all you need to do is to ask questions. This is a good way to get someone to open up, and when you respond, find a way to relate their experience to yours. You never know when you have found a kindred soul.</p>
<p>If you are ready to take the search for romance online, consider what your options are going to be and how you can keep your great conversation going. This is the perfect time to find love, but remember that it will take some work on your part. At the end of the day, you&#8217;ll find that this work is worth it!</p>
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		<title>Love, Families and Other Fun Things</title>
		<link>http://www.lovegenerations.co.za/south_african_seniors/mature-dating-2/love-families-and-other-fun-things/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2012 20:37:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are senior who is thinking about getting into the dating pool once again, there is likely a great deal on your mind. You may be worried about where to go, or appropriate behavior, or you may even be uncertain about what kind of relationship you want to get into. One major factor that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are senior who is thinking about getting into the dating pool once again, there is likely a great deal on your mind. You may be worried about where to go, or appropriate behavior, or you may even be uncertain about what kind of relationship you want to get into. One major factor that impacts dating as a senior is your family. If you are concerned with your family’s reactions, there are a few things to keep in mind.</p>
<p>First, be forthright and upfront. You are a human being with emotional needs and it is your own business who you choose to see. There is nothing to be embarrassed about, and if your family is embarrassed by the idea of you dating, they need to take your needs into account. Similarly, there is nothing wrong with wanting both romantic and platonic companionship. If necessary, express this to them very firmly.</p>
<p>Don’t keep secrets. For some adult children, it can be a little distracting or even distressing to find out that their parent wants to date. However, it is typically a greater blow if they realize that their parent has been dating without their knowledge. You don’t want to risk a fight or hurt feelings if things get serious between you and your new prospective significant other, so be forthright and frank. Your family deserves the truth and you deserve to tell it to them them with honesty and dignity.</p>
<p>Consider introductions. If you have started seeing someone and you think that they are going to continue to be a big part of your life, integrate them into your family get together. Many people get worried when their loved family members start pulling away from their family unit, so start bringing your significant other in. This will help your family relax a great deal.</p>
<p>Move at the rate that you feel comfortable. While your family members may worry that you are moving too fast, you know yourself the best. Decide what you want to do and how far you want to take the relationship. It is never too late to be swept off your feet, after all!</p>
<p>There is no “too old” or “too late” when it comes to falling in love. Whether you have decided to pursue a long-term romantic relationship or you just want something more casual, remember that you should always consider your own comfort and what you want.</p>
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		<title>Dating After Reaching 50, 60, 70 or more</title>
		<link>http://www.lovegenerations.co.za/south_african_seniors/mature-dating-2/dating-after-reaching-50-60-70-or-more/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 07:02:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you have gone through the cycles of dating when you were younger and gained the wisdom that young relationships have taught you, then you realize many things that were simply not obvious to you before. Among these things, that there is no time to play around when it comes to dating &#8211; you simply [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you have gone through the cycles of dating when you were younger and gained the wisdom that young relationships have taught you, then you realize many things that were simply not obvious to you before. Among these things, that there is no time to play around when it comes to dating &#8211; you simply want to be around people that you enjoy and that enjoy you. In South Africa, this can sometimes be rather difficult with meddling families and other people trying to impose their will on your life. However, with LoveGenerations.co.za, you can rest completely assured that your dating life will be your own, separate from the prying eyes of family and politics.</p>
<p>The LoveGenerations.co.za website contains some of the most incredible resources for daters over 50 of any website in on the Internet, and it is without a doubt the most reputable site that focuses on South Africa. You can easily cycle through any number of profiles, and our proprietary vetting system ensures that the person in the profile is the person that you actually meet.</p>
<p>If you find it difficult to expand your social circle as you age, you are not alone. The problem is that you do not have anywhere to go like you did when you were younger. However, LoveGenerations.co.za it solves this problem once and for all. You now have a place to go, a forum, with people of your age, interests and culture.</p>
<p>Believe it or not, there are people in the world looking for romance just like you. The women and men on the LoveGenerations.co.za website are all waiting for their soulmate, and if you never sign up for our comprehensive and thorough service, then you will never know what you&#8217;re missing!</p>
<p>All you have to do is sign up for our website with a profile, listing your interests, what you are looking for and placing a photo with us. After that you can peruse other people&#8217;s profiles in South Africa browsing by a number of different factors, including location, interests, physical appearance as well as many other character traits.</p>
<p>We at LoveGenerations.co.za look forward to helping you find love and romance in your more mature dating life. We look forward to helping you find the people that you can love freely and without reservation; people that will add excitement and fun to your life as well as love and security.</p>
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		<title>Bloemfontein &#8211; The City of Roses</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Aug 2011 04:51:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bloemfontein is a small city of around half a million people. It is nicknamed &#8220;the City of Roses&#8221; as the gorgeous flowers are found everywhere in the city. What says romance more than roses? That&#8217;s right, nothing. Along with its roses, Bloemfontein has a number of options for dates, making it the perfect city for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Bloemfontein</strong> is a small city of around half a million people. It is nicknamed &#8220;the City of Roses&#8221; as the gorgeous flowers are found everywhere in the city. What says romance more than roses? That&#8217;s right, nothing. Along with its roses, Bloemfontein has a number of options for dates, making it the perfect city for a romantic first date.</p>
<p>Bloemfontein has a number of game reserves. These are excellent places to go on a first date. Not only will couples be able to enjoy one another, they will be in an exciting atmosphere. Spending time around animals that are not encountered every day is an experience worth sharing, and if it is shared with a loved one, there is nothing more thrilling than a day at a game reserve.</p>
<p><strong>Soetdoring Nature Reserve</strong>, especially, is the best Bloemfontein has to offer. Here, visitors can see lions, one of Africa&#8217;s most enticing wild animals. Soetdoring Nature Reserve also has a hiking trail, which is unique in that it is safe from any danger posed by the wild animals. This park is the best place for a date for those couples looking to get out of the city and spend a day in nature.</p>
<p>The downtown area of Bloemfontein also has a number of sights that are perfect for a date. The tree lined President Brand Street is a gorgeous avenue for couples to take a nice, romantic stroll. The street is home to a number of museums, so it is the best place in Bloemfontein for couples to go enjoy a quiet afternoon or evening learning and sharing in their love for art or history.</p>
<p><strong>The National Botanical Garden</strong> in Bloemfontein is another one of the city&#8217;s attractions that makes it a wonderful place for spending time with and getting to know a person. The garden contains around four hundred species of plants that are native to southern Africa. The garden is also home to great number of butterflies, around fifty species. With such an abundance of flora and fauna, the National Botanical Garden in Bloemfontein makes itself the perfect place to spend time on a date.</p>
<p>With such an array of choices to choose of, from the multiple game reserves that allow visitors a look at some of Africa&#8217;s most amazing wildlife, to hiking and spending time outdoors, to a stroll through the heart of Bloemfontein and some of South Africa&#8217;s most amazing museums, to the wonders of a natural botanical garden flourishing, not only with hundreds of plant species, but animal life as well, people on a date in Bloemfontein are some of the luckiest in the world. There will never be a dull moment on a date in Bloemfontein.</p>
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		<title>Where To Take Your Date In Bloemfontein</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jul 2011 05:30:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Bloemfontein, as the capital city of the Free State Province of South Africa, offers extraordinary places for love birds on a date in this beautiful, historic South African city. The Cheetah Experience The suburb of Bainsvlei, located only about five minutes travel time from the centre of Bloemfontein, offers an amazing experiences for those on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Bloemfontein</strong>, as the capital city of the Free State Province of South Africa, offers extraordinary places for love birds on a date in this beautiful, historic South African city.</p>
<p><strong>The Cheetah Experience</strong></p>
<p>The suburb of Bainsvlei, located only about five minutes travel time from the centre of Bloemfontein, offers an amazing experiences for those on a date. The Cheetah Experience, a shelter committed to the care of rescued cheetahs, lions, leopards, tigers, and other animals from the wild allows visitors to experience these amazing animals first-hand. Here, visitors are allowed to touch the animals. Most people do not get to interact with such amazing creatures ever in their lives, except through the plexiglass and cages of a zoo. This is an adventure not every city in South Africa, or even the world, can boast about. It will not be one easily forgotten by anyone who ventures inside. The Cheetah Experience is one of Bloemfontein&#8217;s biggest attractions, and it is the perfect place for a date.</p>
<p>The Boyden Observatory</p>
<p>The Boyden Observatory in Bloemfontein offers a unique experience for a date, also. Here, couples can attend special events on specified nights during each month. They can view the stars with a guide, and what else is better than looking at the stars, knowing what you are viewing, than with the love of your life? The answer: next to nothing. The Boyden Observatory is one of the most romantic places a couple can go to enjoy one another&#8217;s company under a canopy of beautiful stars.</p>
<p><strong>Zoo Snoozes</strong></p>
<p>The Bloemfontein Zoo also organizes events known as Zoo Snoozes. These are unique events that allow guests to spend the night in the zoo, something unheard of almost anywhere else in the world! Such a magical experience, spending the evening with every sort of wildlife in the near vicinity, provides another date that will not likely be forgotten.</p>
<p><strong>Franklin Game Reserve</strong></p>
<p>Bloemfontein has a game reserve. Franklin Game Reserve, which sits atop Bloemfontein&#8217;s Naval Hill, is one of the city&#8217;s other top attractions. Here, guests can see a wide array of animals not many people get to come into contact with. The Franklin Game Reserve is bound to provide memories for any couple, be it a first, casual date, to a date years into a marriage. It will surely bring the spice back to the relationship!</p>
<p>The city of Bloemfontein is full of fun activities for couples to pursue. From the Boyden Observatory at night, resting together under a thick blanket of stars, to a night spent at the zoo, to multiple parks to view and interact with wild animals, Bloemfontein has many opportunities for couples who are looking to fall in love together forever.</p>
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		<title>The Challenge of Finding Love</title>
		<link>http://www.lovegenerations.co.za/south_african_seniors/relationships/the-challenge-of-finding-love/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jul 2011 06:33:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Though difficult to define, love is most certainly an interpersonal connection and experience between two people. There are those who say they would search the world over for the experience of love. Rightfully so, since there is nothing like this feeling, no matter what stage of life one happens to be in. Finding love can [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Though difficult to define, love is most certainly an interpersonal connection and experience between two people. There are those who say they would search the world over for the experience of love. Rightfully so, since there is nothing like this feeling, no matter what stage of life one happens to be in.</p>
<p>Finding love can sometimes be a challenging task. Attempting the task of finding love is done best when one searches for those with like qualities to their own. This has become easier with the advent of online dating. Love Generations is certainly an excellent tool in the quest for finding the right person without having to endure those who are not quite what we are looking for in a loving relationship.</p>
<p>Because love is both a feeling and an action, those interested in experiencing love must take the action of searching for it. Once love is experienced it is often thought that one cannot do without it. There is a component to love that includes companionship. There are so many wonderful things in life that are made even more joyful by having someone to share them with. Conversely, when experiencing periods when things are not going well, having someone there for support is a need that having love in one&#8217;s life can fulfill.</p>
<p>Love Generations can offer you the opportunity to find exactly what you are looking for in the way of love and companionship. Age is not an issue, since there are many potential companions to choose from; no matter what age group you are in. There is a pleasurable feeling of excitement associated with love that all generations can experience. No one should be without love. This is the reason why so many search for this yearning feeling within nearly everyone.</p>
<p>During a search for love, there is a courtship phase that is relished by many. This fun, flirtatious stage can be a beautiful beginning to an exciting, lasting, relationship that creates memories for years to come. Who can or would want to forget those first dates with romantic connections of the past? These experiences are often adventurous and thrilling. Even the thought of these will make the most stoic among us smile with remembrance of such pleasure. In a lifetime, those who want these experiences can have them again, if they wish. There is more life to live and love to experience. One should take the chance on finding love because it is worth the effort and the memories created are everlasting.</p>
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		<title>Breaking The Ice, Opening Lines, First Contact To Another Member</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2011 06:58:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The fact that you never get a second chance to make a first impression is true when it come to meeting someone in person as well as online. For online dating, it is especially important to be aware of the impression that you may be making on others. That first message to someone on the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.lovegenerations.co.za/south_african_seniors/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/iStock_000000113601XSmall.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-47" title="Minolta DSC" src="http://www.lovegenerations.co.za/south_african_seniors/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/iStock_000000113601XSmall-300x226.jpg" alt="Breaking the ice, making contact" hspace="10" width="300" height="226" /></a>The fact that you never get a second chance to make a first impression  is true when it come to meeting someone in person as well as online. For  online dating, it is especially important to be aware of the impression  that you may be making on others. That first message to someone on the  dating site needs to be done well and there are a few pointers that will  help with that.</p>
<p>With online messages, there are no additional cues such as body  language, so the message that is types needs to be appropriate and not  confusing. If you do not know the person very well, it is difficult to  gauge how they will react to you. Coming on too strong or using an odd  sense of humor may scare them away very quickly.</p>
<p>A small amount of flirting may be helpful, but again should be done in a  tasteful manner that shows the other person that you are definitely  interested, but respect certain boundaries and limits.</p>
<p>Most people are looking for a deep connection. Because of that, it is  often a good idea to start the first conversation on a topic that the  other person is interested about. Sharing similar ideas, dreams and  aspirations will help the initial conversations go more smoothly. That  does not mean that people need to find the person who has all of the  same likes, dislikes and preferences. It just means that there should be  some common ground that the couple can share.</p>
<p>Once the initial contact has been made, the next step is let them make  the step to respond. There is no set time in which to expect a response,  so it is best to not get worked up and upset if one does not come back  within a day. The other person may be away from their computer for a few  days. If they did not feel a connection, they won&#8217;t respond and it just  wasn&#8217;t meant to be.</p>
<p>Finding a companion can often be difficult. With some tact and patience,  it is not that difficult to make the first steps in communicating with  someone on an online dating site.</p>
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		<title>Passion, Romance, Friends for the Over 50&#8242;s at St Valentine&#8217;s Day</title>
		<link>http://www.lovegenerations.co.za/south_african_seniors/romance/passion-romance-friends-for-the-over-50s-at-st-valentines-day/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 18:00:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Romance]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[St Valentine's Day]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Finding a soul mate can be one of the most exciting moments in a person&#8217;s life. Nothing compares to a moment when a person discovers his or her true soul mate after years of searching. The good news is that with the internet, finding one&#8217;s true soul mate has never been easy. Many people in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.lovegenerations.co.za/south_african_seniors/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/iStock_000000963505Small.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-43" title="iStock_000000963505Small" src="http://www.lovegenerations.co.za/south_african_seniors/wp-content/uploads/2011/02/iStock_000000963505Small-300x199.jpg" alt="Finding your soul mate when you are over 50" width="300" height="199" /></a>Finding a soul mate can be one of the most exciting moments in a  person&#8217;s life. Nothing compares to a moment when a person discovers his  or her true soul mate after years of searching. The good news is that  with the internet, finding one&#8217;s true soul mate has never been easy.</p>
<p>Many people in their 50&#8242;s and older have the misconception that only  young people use the internet. This could not be farther from the truth.  Every day, thousands of people in their 50&#8242;s and up use the internet  for one purpose, and that is to find a bit of passion and romance. With  <strong>St. Valentine&#8217;s Day</strong> approaching, finding passion and a hot romantic  interest has never been easier than with <strong>dating websites</strong> and the  internet.</p>
<p>If one is looking to find another with common interests or hobbies, then  using a dating website is simply a must. A person can find everyone  from South African mature singles to people over 50&#8242;s dating South  Africa. It is amazing to consider the opportunities one has when he or  she opens himself or herself up to the world of online romance.</p>
<p><strong>St. Valentine&#8217;s Day</strong> should always be spent at the side of another  romantic interest. This is a day filled with fun, passion, romance, and  most importantly, love. One does not need to be in a serious  relationship to enjoy St. Valentine&#8217;s Day and all this wonderful holiday  has to offer. One can be in a casual dating relationship, or one can  even go on a blind date on Valentine&#8217;s Day. Imagine going on a blind  date and finding one&#8217;s true love in life on the best of all romantic  holidays-Valentine&#8217;s Day!</p>
<p>If one has a particular interest in finding South African mature  singles, then dating websites are the best option one has. People who use o<strong>ver  50&#8242;s dating in South Africa</strong> can find one another online. A person can find  one with similar interests, such as cooking or hiking on the internet. A  person can also find someone with common values, such as moral or  religious values by searching online for singles.</p>
<p>This St. Valentine&#8217;s Day, one should jump into the water and give online  dating a try. Passion, romance, and great friends are sure to follow  after trying out the amazing world of online dating. One has nothing to  lose and truly everything to gain by using great online dating sites and  meeting new singles!</p>
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		<title>Leave the Relationship Baggage Behind</title>
		<link>http://www.lovegenerations.co.za/south_african_seniors/relationships/leave-the-relationship-baggage-behind/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Dec 2010 09:20:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Claudia</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most of us have been heart broken at least once in our lifetimes. Someone that we truly adored disappointed us and left us with serious doubts about finding and keeping true love. Bad experiences in love can leave us confused and bitter; however, these issues can be the very things that prevent us from enjoying [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most of us have been heart broken at least once in our lifetimes. Someone that we truly adored disappointed us and left us with serious doubts about finding and keeping true love. Bad experiences in love can leave us confused and bitter; however, these issues can be the very things that prevent us from enjoying a new love relationship.</p>
<p>Life hurts at times. We must face this reality. People will hurt us. This is simply a fact of life. Although we should learn from the experience, we can not punish everyone else for the misdeeds of a prior love. This is unfair, and this is serious baggage. Before looking for a new relationship, it is best to cleanse oneself of baggage. This can take time and can require some time of self-reflection. Old wounds need to heal, and you should take the time to nurture yourself. Then you can return to the dating scene healed, renewed, and fresh.</p>
<p>Experience can be a great teacher; however, new relationships should be given a fair shake. In fact, until a reason is given, you probably should give a person the benefit of the doubt. A person carrying around past baggage is as unattractive as a property with trash scattered all over. The property screams &#8220;filthy&#8221;. Who wants to wander around a filthy property? Probably another person who enjoys their trash. Healthy, whole people will not take well to excess baggage.</p>
<p>Furthermore, experience should make us wiser. However, we must not assume that everyone is out to get us. Surprisingly enough, there are still genuine people out there that can add something to our lives. Now, tell-tell signs of character problems should be taken seriously. For instance, a person that lies has a character issue, and you should run not walk to the nearest exit.</p>
<p>Character flaws are relatively permanent. People can change; however, change does not come easy to humans, so if a person is unacceptable to you in the beginning, you might need to keep on looking. Taking on a project relationship seldom leads to success. You should be able to accept the person as is. There is no guarantee that the person will change. In fact, chances are good that they could possibly get worse in some areas. This is truly something you must think long and hard about when choosing a mate. Is the behaviour a deal breaker for you? We should not punish others for the sins of someone else, but we must keep our eyes wide open. Actions speak louder than words; actions that do not align with words can be an indicator of trouble. Proceed at your own risk.</p>
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